I was talking to a woman friend of mine two days ago about being single and dreaming of having wonderful sex but also being deeply in love with that partner. I started the convo talking about how I instruct my clients on first developing then strengthening their sexual skill sets. (more…)
Posts Tagged ‘sex therapist’
I was recently tapped to do some blog writing on an online sex toy shop in the U.K. They told me that a lot of people don’t understand the role sex toys can take in their sex lives. Here’s a sneak peak of what I tell my clients: (more…)
I just finished reading Dr. Louann Brizendine’s book, The Female Brain, and in this post, I’ll focus mainly on her section about female sexual response and orgasm. The preceding chapters were interesting. They detailed girlhood and teen behaviors as heavily influenced, according to Dr. Brizendine, by the hormone fluctuations of the brain. The other chapters on interesting menopausal behavioral info. She goes into the male side as well. First, some points I agreed with.
Sex life coaching gives women three useful steps to overcoming frustration and dread of sex.
New women clients, married or in a long-term relationship, they will tell me how heavy their burden is with frustration and dread vis a vi sex with their partner. There has been an accumulation of resentments over the years, mistakes made by the both of them. The frustration comes from trying so many times and hoping this time will be the one for great sex and/or orgasm, but the same outcome happens once again– the lack thereof. They want better sex. Amazing sex, but negativity is often what looms in their minds. (more…)