Archive for the ‘marriage’ Category

A Sex and Breakup Issue That’s Never Discussed

Wednesday, November 28th, 2012

Breaking up with someone when your sexual skills don’t seem to work on your partner. No one talks about it. It makes an ego sting when what one does well in bed fails. Blame is placed on the other person when much better responses exist. Here are some tips for dealing with this before deciding [...]

Clarifications and Elaborations on my Fox 5 interview.

Wednesday, August 1st, 2012

Last night, I was on NYC’s Fox 5 news at 10 for a story on sex life coaching because they had seen the recent GQ Magazine in-print and online feature article about my work. I’d like to make some clarifications to the information they gave on my Guided Sessions and tell you about much of [...]

The Advantages of Monogamy

Thursday, July 26th, 2012

Everyone knows monogamy’s weaknesses: same partner, no other partners to experience sex with, the loss of enjoying the unique little strengths that given lovers will have in bed for you or when you do things to them. However, it’s very helpful to be aware of monogamy’s strengths. Ones that are under-utilized by most.

When Nietzsche and A Minister Agree On Love.

Monday, July 2nd, 2012

I went to a wedding of one of my girlfriend’s oldest friends this past weekend. The minister gave some advice to the couple and those assembled on how to sustain a romantic relationship borrowing from the perspective of Fred Nietzsche. The advice sounded remarkably like the things I say and do with my sex life coaching:

When Psychologists Ignore or Dismiss the Body.

Friday, February 10th, 2012

Eric Amaranth’s response to the lack of mind and body integration in psychology ‘s view of what makes us orgasm. Below is a response I wrote recently to an article on www.psychologytoday.com by Stanley Siegel, LCSW. Click here for his full article. I semi-support his theory, however, I disagreed with a position he takes that [...]

Women’s First Steps To Resolving Sexual Frustration

Monday, October 31st, 2011

Sex life coaching gives women three useful steps to overcoming frustration and dread of sex. New women clients, married or in a long-term relationship, they will tell me how heavy their burden is with frustration and dread vis a vi sex with their partner. There has been an accumulation of resentments over the years, mistakes [...]

“How did sex life coaching make you fall in love again?” part 1

Tuesday, October 25th, 2011

Some of Eric Amaranth’s sex life coaching clients (names changed) tell him what made them fall in love with their partners again. As I’ve mentioned in previous posts, I keep hearing from my married clients how they’ve fallen in love again. I wanted to be able to share with readers how those clients and former [...]

Spontaneous Sex: One path to Great Sex among many.

Sunday, October 16th, 2011

Our culture’s generalized path for how most of us begin and move through a sex life starts almost always with an intense turn on toward spontaneous sex. That if it’s not spontaneous it’s not hot or worth spending time doing. When you’re single, it’s much easier to pull that off as we know. With children, [...]

The New Number One Reason For Divorce

Wednesday, October 12th, 2011

Falling out of love has recently replaced infidelity as the number one reason for divorce. According to this www.yourtango.com article, more marriages are surviving after an instance of cheating than ever before. The new reason for parting ways is simply falling out of love. The information comes from a new survey. Precisely along these lines [...]

The Solution to No Sex or Bad Sex vs Infidelity or Divorce

Friday, October 7th, 2011

Sex life coaching, the new sex therapy, often provides a solution to infidelity and divorce due to sexual problems. A client wrote me an email the other day. It struck me, so I asked her permission to include excerpts in a blog post on how she sees my brand of sex life coaching as a [...]