Date Night Deserves More Than Dinner Out!

Saturday, January 28th, 2017

A quote at left from my sex coach mentor, Betty. I did a private tally of the number of times friends, acquaintances, and new clients told me they planned on going out/stay in to have sex during their date night vs go to eat out, to a movie, play putt-putt, go shopping, or what have you.

It turned out that sex to be had was around 30% of the time if that.

One of the classic sexytimes I hear of are ones where the kids are sent to another location: grandparents’, the mall, sleeepovers. camps, etc. I don’t count those as date nights in the same way. That’s more like a hall pass. However, even though hall passes were taken up, so many people are using them to catch up on things or any other activity but having a great sex life.

I am also told that besides the effect American culture has on discouraging people from enjoying sex, making people think sex is one way and you can’t get better by going into details, they are bored with what they do in bed and anything they try that’s new either doesn’t work, or someone starts imagining they are taking too long or their partner is bored.

I could go on, but I think you all know without me having to catalog the tangled issues.

The only thing that creates great change for the better in life is someone saying, “Enough!” then imagining what they want instead, and finally, setting things in motion to go get it. Fight the bullshit myth that says you can’t get better at sex by going into details and that it makes it not sexy.

My clients threw all that away, took a new breath of fresh air, and started from the perspective that they and they alone make the decisions on their sex life and how it is designed. My clients aren’t rule-followers or that’s-just-the-way-things-are-zombies. They’re out there calling date night what it is: sex night! And maybe dinner after. Then more sex if possible.

My wife and I were told by our OB Gyn that sex would disappear pretty much from a parents’ life. While opportunities are fewer at the moment, the deprivation is actually making us more interested in each other. Not to mention how good the sex is.

Create a sex life where you really look forward to date nights/days and all the quickies in between because the two of you are really good at sex. It’s only natural that people hunger for more when they quality is high. There are plenty of foodies out there. Become a sexie too! Follows Up With Another Great Article on Sex Life Coaching

Sunday, January 15th, 2017

More positive press! Here’s an interview article on my sex life coaching work by Want A Better Sex Life? Hire A Sex Coach.

Can’t complain at all about the quality of this coverage. I admire the writer for taking the advancement of women’s sexuality seriously and positively.


New Feature Article on my Sex Life Coaching on

Friday, January 6th, 2017

This Is What It’s Like To Hire A Sex Coach

My latest press drawn from the writer having interviewed one of my clients.

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Her Sex Drive and Interest in Sex Went Way Up.

Tuesday, January 3rd, 2017

One of the things I love about being a sex life coach is seeing such dramatic positive changes come over sad-about-sex women clients. They come to me feeling neutral to negative about sex, orgasm, and self-stimulation and come out the other side having done a 180.

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The More You Work It, The Better Orgasms Get.

Sunday, December 4th, 2016

imagesI received a celebratory email from a client telling me how she had her first G spot orgasm and squirting via the physical stimulation methods she learned from her sex life coaching with me.
However, she said her orgasm wasn’t that intense…

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Want Your Butt Sexier And Cardio? Do The Donkey Kick.

Saturday, October 29th, 2016

Donkey kick exerciseA sexy, round, ass with ample glute size is highly desired by the human brain in the vast majority of people. It’s not just for men either. Most straight women love a guy with a popping, sculpted butt. Survey said so. Glutes is the most-viewed-in-public sexy body part on men for women.

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The Omega-3 Answer For Low Sex Drive and Making Orgasms Stronger and Easier

Sunday, October 16th, 2016

Omega-3 fish oil for sexI decided to blog on the omega-3 recommendations I give to my private clients because I’ve seen such consistent results from them in the categories of sex drive boost and increased orgasm intensity.

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More On Sexual Neurology

Saturday, September 3rd, 2016

ComingA continuation on my recent blog on sexual neurology, let’s look at some more examples of the role that sex skills and differences in bodies play in creating a person’s preferred sexual pleasures and orgasms.

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“Doing What Comes Naturally” Is Only The Beginning.

Thursday, August 25th, 2016

imagesI was at a get-together recently and the subject of what I do for a living arose. Interesting convo followed, then a young man said, “Your service really is great for people who can’t learn (about having sex) from doing what comes naturally.” He wasn’t being sarcastic, but as we all know, it’s a gross oversimplification.

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Sexual Neurology Understanding Is Crucial

Sunday, August 14th, 2016

imagesI had a consultation with a new client.  I asked her what helped her to decide to work with me and she said, among other things, that she had not heard anyone else refer to “neurology” with regards to sex.

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